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Child Visitation Rights - How Adultery Affects Child Custody

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Are you thinking about divorce? Think again. Is it really worth it?

For anyone who thinks divorce is a free pass to freedom and a carefree, long and happy life, think again!

We won't even speak about the pain resulting when Divorce rears it's ugly head, issues present themselves that no one should have to contend with, issues such as:

Families taking sides, lining up and making comments or threats.
Friends that sometimes pull away when they are put in the position of taking sides and would rather not even to be "involved." This is sometimes devastating in addition to the recent loss of being left alone and feeling totally unnecessary.

In defense of the "friend," choosing between two friends can be a very difficult position in which to exist. Choosing to disappear from the scene, seems to be the only option.

SOME OF THE RESULTS OF THE DECISION TO DIVORCE:

The resulting pain, not withstanding, the home environments change...

A wife may have to return to work.

A husband may have been supporting the family before, but if he is the "leaver," he may be forced to take a second job, in order to maintain a new place to live. (Unless the leaver is a fornicator and is planning to mooch off of their co-conspirator, then they deserve each other.)
Otherwise, the leaver will have to pay, at a minimum for:

  • An additional home
  • Food
  • Utility bills
  • Telephone
  • Cable
  • Insurance
  • Taxes
  • Maybe an additional vehicle
  • Possible childcare costs if he/she has custody when working
  • Alimony may be a reality, also.
  • And after the spoils are divided up, both will most likely, have half of what they owned before, that means the home entertainment system, the boat, the pool and whatever amenities are important to them.
  • Savings will most likely be a non-issue.
  • All of these issues can "break the bank."
  • Retirement dreams become a myth!
SOMETHING OF NOTE FOR WOMEN:

More and more today, if the woman is making a generous amount of money in her chosen position, and her spouse has primary custody, she, not the man, may be charged to pay child support. (The Women's Rights Movement has come to roost.)

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Divorce Doesn't Have to Destroy Your Kids - Guidelines For Divorcing and Divorced Parents

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Some divorce courts require parents to take parenting classes before granting a divorce. This applies also to some counties in some other states. Mandated classes for divorces with children can be attended separately or together.

These classes are important because parents need to be made aware of how their divorce might affect their children. Children react differently at varied stages of development, but they all react emotionally. Parents need to learn what is appropriate developmentally and what is not.

The kids may be acting angry, but the underlying emotions are sadness, disappointment, and fear. Adults will need to learn to get to the real issue at hand. It would be very easy to burn bridges and build walls that lead to destructive behavior if parents do not learn how to respond to a child struggling with their family breakup. Good parenting courses help parents to avoid this parenting mistake.

There are highly accredited online parenting courses available that satisfy court requirements for probation or divorce. These courses are great because they allow parents to put their kids first and complete the course on their own schedule. There is no time limit, but there can be a four to ten hour course requirement. Parents are very busy all the time when they have children. Online participation gives parents individualized 24/7 flexibility.

Online parenting studies are recognized by courts in most states. Just check with the organizer of the class and verify with your attorney or mediator.

Classes online should teach subjects like parental communication, anger and stress management, parenting styles and teamwork, rewards and discipline for children, conflict resolution, and avoiding parenting mistakes. Courses should deal with the new blended family in America. Over fifty per cent (50%) of the families in this nation are comprised of step-family members.

Some parents may desire to improve their parenting skills without a court order. Observing the behavior of parents and children in any public place, anyone can see the need for improved parenting skills in America. Many times it is not readily apparent who is the parent and who is the child. This can also occur in a divorce when a parent and a child reverse roles and the child becomes the caregiver. This is not fair to the child. Children deserve a happy, carefree childhood.

Parents will want to be sure they are getting information from licensed practicing professionals. Any quality online parenting course should offer a Certificate of Completion. A full refund should be guaranteed if the court does not accept the Certificate of Completion.

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